If you have your flash in TTL, and if you set up the camera to let in more ambient light (by either longer shutter, wider aperture and/or higher ISO), the ambient and flash will begin to balance, and you'll see more of the background/surroundings.
If you're looking for a style with a less obvious flash, then this
planet neil link might get you started.
Good luck.
Tarique - Very nice tutorial, and welcome!