Thank you for all the help, guys!
This is what I've ended up settling on. Does anyone have experience with this shop? They had a great ebay reputation and seem legit- WAY better deal than the camera store. All kinds of extra stuff I may or may not use, though no bundled flash or lens. I really want to be picky with those and buy them seperate. I saved $150 so I should have enough for a second lens or flash pretty soon.
Also, I went to Barnes and Noble the other day and picked up the "Complete Digital Photography" Fourth Edition. I also took a look at the other books that were recommended here, but this one seemed most all-encompassing (even though it's more schoolbook-ish.)
I suppose I should have the camera in about a week, and then you all can look forward to seeing some truly abysmal shots from me. (For a little while.)