wow this was actually a fun thread to read lol, i totally agree with everything thats been said, good for you for not releasing your rights, also the lowering of pic size on your website, great decision!
, in 33 the "pixels" are just the freckles/pores in the skin, absolutely nothing wrong with that. I have no experience as a professional photographer, but do from an amateur standpoint, however i am more of (ok im the perfect example of) the second kind from what formelement was talking about
my personal advice from reading this thread and just plain thinking is that tell her this is what you signed, this is what you ordered, u have what you ordered, on these two pics i will......(this has been said and i dont feel the need or want to retype it
)....and sign a contract saying that and then walk away, if you have the money from the shoot and prints than ur good
best of luck